And their husbands are not either there for supporting them when they return. They have not been able to support the solitude and the necessity to have a woman in the home that makes the tasks domestic and they have caught up again. In addition, they no longer belong to that society. They have left, have worked, they have been able to maintain its family, have learned new things have seen other ways to live. No longer they are the same of before and they do not fit either in its previous life. The familiar regroupings are not the panacea either. It is certain well that the their children company of and husband count on, but the problems also arise.
The husband is a woman independent, with own use and income and customary to live his life on independent way. And he enters collision with the chauvinistic principles of the husband. They appear, then, problems of I mistreat or domestic violence. Of the 99 women assassinated by their pairs in 2007 in Spain, 28 of them were foreign. The children just arrived do not see covers either their expectations of ” a life in paraso”. Before their mothers sent hundreds of Euros with which they could cover his scholastic needs and spend money in clothes or other superfluous objects of consumption. Three hundred or four hundred Euros in Ecuador or Bolivia are what a father can win to maintain all their family.
In Spain the Euros do not spread as much. The family it has ” to tighten cinturn” and the children usually are not arranged to it. And the mother sees how there is to work to more be able to maintain ” caprichos” of its piston rods and not to feel the deception of the expectations nonfulfilled. The woman is the spine of all society and a fundamental element so that this is developed and grown. The women immigrants play a role very important in their countries since they become example for other women and force his daughters to form, to know their rights, to enjoy a responsible maternity and must fulfill another fundamental one in the welcome societies: to create a network of support for women immigrants. Most veteran they can teach to move by the city, to help to find house or a use to just the arrivals. Through the social networks, to try to break the negative circle of the uprooting and the solitude of women who as much we needed.