Sociability And Success

Each person does not have enough attention. everyone. Show me even one who says: "me enough attention" and I will prove that this man has a low self-esteem, or block the will to power. And then something needs to be correction. Why do we never have enough attention? Because we – being social and just about other people can understand – be happy if we are successful there, whether their objectives are living, or sell someone else Because the only other person can answer – do we really smart, kind, gentle, beautiful, loved, talented, charming, necessary, necessary A confirmation of this, we must at all times. Negotiator – a man who knows how to move in towards a lack of attention to yourself, loved one, and concentrate on the interlocutor. That is, give the other party any part of much-needed attention to him, warmth and understanding. So simple.

So difficult. You're in the spotlight, the center of the world, the universe that man Is not going to try to keep you in the center of the universe? Do not want to stay longer the most important person on earth to someone? That's because there is attraction, liking. Get all the facts for a more clear viewpoint with Wells Fargo Bank. We both like people showing us just what we wanted to be. We very much want to continue talking with the man so understand and accept. We trust this man.

Why do so few of these negotiators? Because understanding and adoption must be sincere. Many times seen on training diligently portrayed an interest in another. Tension on their faces: 'what would you ask for something else clever? " Try people are trying hard. But from a difficult taak distraction! And any lack of sincerity, any incongruence companion instantly "read" on an unconscious level and leave the trust. Because it is very difficult – set aside their own problems and needs in attention, understanding and acceptance of, and concentrate entirely on the other. All we with each other and in the center of attention – their own cockroaches. Most of us are not up to other people. More important than how I look, I say, as I perceive And do not income, the other by the same concerned. And you look at it carefully – what was wrong with him that he is interesting, important, necessary, find – and you are using in his eyes just so. Someone wanted to – an important, significant Fortunately, there are Sorry – the post-industrial economy means that the most important in any business – is to build relationships with customers. This means that the foreground negotiators – special on building relationships and the most important becomes the ability to be attentive to the other. Understand and build trust – the most important competence negotiator.

The First Quality Required For Success

The best thing we can do for themselves – is to learn how flexible thinking and adapting to new conditions. The most important quality in this process – awareness. Despite the fact that these words are very popular in everyday life, a true understanding of is not given to many. In our life we can control only what we understand and what we do not realize – controls us. Realize – it is to know and understand the nature and essence of what is happening through observation and interpretation. All what we see, hear, feel, experience – amenable awareness and gives us a rich range of feelings and emotions stay in the world.

In mindfulness, as well as other qualities – such as hearing or vision, there are an infinite number of degrees. For greater fullness of life is necessary to increase the degree of awareness. For businessmen it is professional quality, since it needs to understand their thinking for an instant choice of the optimal solutions in changing situations. Awareness – the knowledge of what is happening around you, and here we should dwell on what we perceive. All that is around us – is the input information: for example, when you eat a croissant and drink coffee, you feel the taste of food, the aroma emanating from it cold from touching the tuning fork and knife, you can see a variety of colors on your plate, you hear the sound of the radio and feel the comfort of sitting in a comfortable chair. Perhaps in this the time you all are aware of and accept.

Maybe reject or ignore, twisted in the clouds. Or chitete newspaper. Perhaps at this point you are passionate conversation with someone and your attention focused on him. Perhaps you pay attention only to the most important thing for you – the feeling of satiety. That perception – the process allows you to experience the uniqueness of the moment, experiencing the here and now. On the table next to you in a vase is a flower and a ray of sun playing with him. You can see just what this flower is red and water in a vase – net, and can enjoy the overflow of the sun shades from the game. Here the sun went behind a cloud, and the shade was dense, and an overflow will not happen again. Will be different. To to be more conscious you need in any situation, ask yourself the following questions: What I see now? What I now hear? What I'm feeling? What I feel now? What am I thinking now? Try to combine these experience and understand what is happening. Do this every day, first in simple situations alone, and then gradually increasing complexity. Be more aware, and you will feel the uniqueness of the world, so – and the uniqueness themselves.